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Hmmm - I read in a deleted post earlier than NHWM left because of some bickering or something of that nature. I do think before I post.
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NHWM posted:
"NeedHelpWithMom
Posted May 23, 2019
I am going in for more heart tests today. Under stress and I am going to take a break from the forum. Please say prayers."
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Apologies all around....thanks Shell, that was big of you to apologize, so kudos to you, and all of us.

This thread has become obsolete, and should be archived, imo.

Sorry Polar, but when a thread has become fodder for gossip, it serves no purpose, imo. If the admins decided to delete a post, that proves they are still monitoring this website, and are right there, right now.

Read fast.....my posts are often deleted quickly, lol.



And, the website is no longer new.

Group hug everyone!
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I should have written "We ALL need to remember to think before we post", me included - that wasn't directed at you polarbear.
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Let's all be kind to one another, and help each other if we can. And if we can't, at least don't hurt one another. I imagine everyone here has been through a lot and is in need of support.
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I honestly believe we have social media to blame. Twitter hasn't help. And, well I need to say this, our U.S. President has set a tone for insulting people who disagree with him. Sadly diplomacy has been thrown out the window :(

In my career I had to use diplomacy in every aspect of my life. A few years back when the Captain went after me for whatever reason, I had to sit on my hands to keep from making comments that wouldn't have been user-friendly.

So many on this forum are under a lot of stress with caregiving, or trying to recover from caregiving. There are still hot buttons that one can push and it is only human to react. And there are difficult topics, such as Hospice, that will bring out the best and worst in people..... [sigh]
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Agree that this site is not 'improved'. I have found several issues, but too tired to go into it.
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It would be nice if we could call a truce; I'd be all for that. Not sure it's possible or even likely, but I'd be all for it,
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Needhelpwithmom PM me stating that Salutem and someone else (who I will not named was sending her nasty messages). Not just one or two messages but one after the other and because of her heart health she couldn't take the stress anymore so she left. I have received other PM from others stating the same issues. Why did they came to me-I do not know!

I enjoy this forum and learned so much from all of you. But the stress, the uncaring replys, the in consideration for other people's feels is somedays to much. People pretending to be a caretaker and aren't and others feeling they can say what they want without any regards to how the person on the other side might feel is to much!

Something has change on this forum and I am not sure what it is!

I am here looking for answers and to connect with people that are going through the samething or people that have gone through it.

I try my best to post anwsers from my heart and experience and be just a matter-of-fact.

Polarbear, I am not leaving this forum all together:) Thank you for your support. You should message NHWM.

Cwilly, I know I was wrong and thank you for accepting my apologie.

Freqflyer, I agree with you!

Tiger, I also agree with you!

Frazzled I also agree with you as well!

Tacy, I am sorry if I had anything to do with your friend leaving. I wish she would have told me and am sure we could have worked it out.

Send, None of us are prefect. Thank you for your support.

Salutem, I will no longer be posting you my answers or comments to you because I just know me and I can not remain impartial. Sorry!

Cwilly, you are right we all are dealing with so much stress and presure partner up with resentment and pain.

Thank you everybody for your understanding and support.
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Shell,
So at the same time that you are apologizing for your provocative behavior you continue to engage in more provocative and accusatory behavior? Because that's not transparent at all.
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Truce????
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