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Countrymouse- Trust me when I tell you that thought occurs to me all the time. When I tell you that she has spent 90% of the past two months in bed I am not exaggerating. But you are absolutely right.... its like the boy who cried wolf! The hypochondria makes it really hard to know when she is actually sick.

We always take her to see a Doctor. There is a Doctor that comes to the AL facility twice a week. She is requiring constant medical attention and we are afraid that the assisted living facility is going to tell us that they can't handle her medical needs and send her packing.

I should add that she wasn't just panicking... she was delusional. I live out-of -state and she told my Sister that I had come to the assisted living facility and told her I was going to get a Doctor and be right back and then I never came back. That didn't happen. 
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The elderly love to talk about their bowels 😒
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I expect it's a stupid question but you have ruled out possible physical causes of her vomiting, have you? It's just it strikes me that for a person who's already on anti-anxiety medication that must be quite some panic attack she's having if she does in fact vomit.

After all, you don't want her epitaph to be "I told you I was ill!"
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cwillie-- don't even get started on her bowels! LOL! I know way too much about my Mom's bowels... argh!
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All kinds of obsessions can go along with dementia, hypochondria is one, but some obsess over paranoid thoughts about their caregivers and loved ones, or certain foods, or (god help us) their bowels. Go along to get along is usually the best practice, along with redirection - gee mom, I'm sorry you feel so bad, lets go have lunch in the dining room to see if a hot meal helps you feel better.
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The Assisted Living facility recommended a Geriatric Psychiatrist. She is suppose to meet with him/her this week.

Is hypochondria a common "side effect" of Alzheimer's ? How should I handle it when I talk to her? If I even imply that her perceived illness is in her head it sends her into a panic. Should I just "go along to get along? I get frustrated because she uses this fantasy illness to NEVER get out of bed.
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I agree she doesn't need skilled nursing care, is there memory care available locally? And keep working with her doctor to try to find a cure for her anxiety, maybe a geriatric psychiatrist would be beneficial.
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Can you have her seen by geriatric psychiatrist? Meds may help with her chronic anxiety and agitation.
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