My sister will not allow the hospital or nurse to provide siblings information on my dying mother's health condition. Now she wants us to schedule 1 visit per day per sibling. The doctor said my mom is dying, we want to go see her before she dies to say our good bye. My sister the POA wants the siblings visit restricted to only one per day. There are six of us, she may die anytime. Can she do this?
Maybe sister doesn't want people traipsing thru her house. Actually, if she is doing the caring she should welcome the company. Maybe ask why you all can't visit more often. Tell her by being there you all could be of help. She doesn't have to entertain you. Tell her to get out for a while. Shop, run errands, take a nap. That's what family is for, to help share the burden. A POA does not mean she is in command. She is suppose to think what Mom would want and do it.
Yes, a POA does kinda put her in command, and yes she should care about what mom wants, BUT that does not mean she has to be a doormat
BTW, did you guys help out POA sister at all?