I moved in with my father to help him out after coming home from the hospital. For a while there everything was going along as planned but about 3months ago I noticed that there were less and less bath towels in the laundry. I asked if he had anything in his room and he said no. Now with the hot summer months here I have noticed a body odor smell everytime he enters the room. His skin looks flaky like a lot of dead skin hanging around. I dont know how long it has been since he showered last. I dont know how to bring the subject up to him. Me being his daughter would be kind of strange to give him a bath if he needs help. I have asked my brothers but they also say they cant do it. Please give me some suggestions on how I say Dad you need to take a bath you smell without hurting his feelings.
I am sorry to hear about the issues that you are having with you father and bathing. Unfortunately, you are not alone here and many other caregivers experience a similar issues. Your father may not be showering for many different reasons.
Here is an article written on this topic that should help you.
My Parent Won’t Shower or Change Clothes. What Should I Do?
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/elderly-parents-who-wont-shower-or-change-clothes-133877.htm
Hope this helps!
Karie H.
AgingCare.com Team