Office of aging was called and has protective something for her, he's 93 and has some heart issues. They've been in hospital for 11 days now and just want to be home together.
What happens if they refuse to go to a nursing home or be separated?
They have too much money to qualify for Medicaid, but it's not enough for long term care.
I am POA for both, but separating them would kill them.
Any advice???
It seems like from what you've said that they can not go home alone together. A disaster in the making.
It sounds like living in a private home together is no longer safe. Can you tell them you will do everything you can to get them a place together and then make that the goal?
IF it's not possible for them to stay together know that this is not your fault. It is the reality of the situation. My only other piece of advice is what NOT to do and that is let them move in with you.