My parents moved to an independent living facility closer to me in August. They have not been able to visit my home because we do not have high toilets and there are two steps that they would have to go up to get to either one of them. My mom cannot get up the two steps without a railing and she has to have a high toilet. We do not currently have the money to fix this problem. Dad wants to visit, but can’t leave Mom that long. Any ideas?
I wound up going to the ALF to celebrate Christmas with the folks that year and we had a very nice time. The chef made a lovely meal and my DH and I gave the folks gifts, etc. It all turned out well and there was no stress or anxiety on anyone's part.
If it's your folks who want to come visit you at your home, you've gotten a couple of good suggestions for how to remedy that situation.
Best of luck!
A couple people could probably help her up the two steps if she rarely visits. Unless you're talking about two flights of steps?
Otherwise just have dad visit, or visit during outings away from your home that are accessible to both parents.
If dad really really really wants to come to the house, hire a sitter for mom so he can make the visit.