My father is failing he refuses help of any sort
he accuses me of thinking he is stupid
I have no idea what his house is like he won't let me go over
Yes as all of you have said before he doesn't want my help
I don't want him to tell my about his health issues
I say go to the doctor and he says I know what to do
I have a sibling and relatives but they are no where to be found
anyway I have written about this numerous times
he is dying I asked him if wanted to die and he said no
F this
If I remember correctly there is already a POA who is managing Dad's care?
I think he is currently in care (or am I mistaken).
Really, over and over again, both he and family have told you that they don't require your help with him. He does, however seem to continue to plague you with his calls. If that's the case I would just continue to spend very little time with him on the phone, basically tell him to have a good day, and then get on with your own life.
I cannot now remember if you have sought help for yourself. You seem somehow now sort of stuck in the mud, the wheels spinning, and going nowhere. I am really so very sorry, but only you can help yourself out of this ditch which seems to be getting dug deeper and deeper. Your Dad's lifetime is ending now. And when he is gone there will still be a long life left to you. So do start today getting some interests other than Dad going so you can have some satisfaction of this, your one and only life.
The only control you have is APS and the police.
I am so sorry, I get it! I know this is hard, when you want the best for your parents and you can not do anything to help.
Many of us here, have or have just sat and waited for the dreaded fall. We have to put it out of are minds, as much as possible and go on with are life.
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