I have DPOA before my mom became incapacitated. Also living will. I am heir and we have health care power. A neighbor called adult protection service, because mom was going to their house. I was with her. Anyway they said abuse, neglect and exploration. Now they have signed off on abuse and neglect. Now they want to see bank account and I refuse. From the first time at home they said if I didn't show bank account they would take guardianship. Its been 8 months and they have not done anything but sign off on abuse and neglect. I don't trust them. I pay house payment which is in her and my name, and she pays power, cable, and water. I also pay her car payment. How can I be exploiting her? Do I have to show or should I tell them to take it to court?
when this happened to me, I immediately got the family lawyer involved. Everything had to go though him.
the amount of power APS has is just insane. Comply. Your life can be made very tough by them if you don’t.