I am the primary caretaker for my mother who is in a private independent care facility--but she is hardly independent. I have a nurse in with her Monday through Friday, but on weekends and evenings either I'm with her most of the time or a member of my family when I'm sick. Yesterday when I went to see her I discovered the facility wouldn't let me in at all--only medical personnel. My mom just got out of the hospital due to congestive heart failure and she has advancing Alzheimer's. I can't believe I can't even get in to see her.
Although TP and commodities aren't officially rationed, the shortages we're seeing are reminding me of my parents' reminisces.
I spent the Whole day typing the daily events of this virus on island - on an Excel chart that I made. A Statistic n Public Announcement Chart.... / Date, Press Release #1 onward, total confirmed, sex, # hospitalized, # stable, # death, exposed travel where, age ranges, n public announcements... / By the end of the day, the figures were not adding up. I reread from beginning, and still not adding up. I decided to ignore my OCD in trying to ‘balance’ the figures... Visually, the first couple of days, it was the elderlies - over 60. Then the middle ages started popping up. Now those in their 20s. So far, none under age 20... 77 confirmed cases. 3 deaths, all elderly.
Never did I think I would be reading posts like these on AgingCare, right?
A few weeks ago the new County Exec, who took over after the long serving very competent one passed, held a telephone "town hall" Q & A session for seniors. I called in, was linked up, and listened for an hour or so to questions from seniors.
The Exec was accompanied by 2 nurses, but I don't recall w/o checking notes what their titles were although I had the impression they were County staff nurses.
Before asking their questions, callers would be announced by a member of the County team, with a first name, and location, something like "this is Betty, from Happy Lake Township." Four times callers' last names were used, such as "...Betty Jones, from Happy Lake Township."
These are presumably all older people, yet this dumbbell was stating their full names on a telephone call with perhaps 4K people. Had any assumptions been made about security of these people who were directly identified? Who knows?
I called later and complained about this to one of the male staffers, and informed him I thought it was irresponsible and risky to name callers, especially vulnerable seniors, by last name and location.
Yet these were nurses (and it's possible that the Exec participated - I don't really recall for sure) were doing this, and presumably we should listen to the other advice they're giving? Their advice might be sound medically, but the lack of common sense made it less likely for me to accept the validity of their responses.
working inside a restaurant or grocery that are exposed to the virus by the public. Like you said, NHWM, 2 employees at a Trader Joes tested positive.
Wondering if I should have followed the "prepper's" advice so that we could stay 100% at home and not go out for groceries, putting those workers at risk, as well as ourselves.
The employees are not wearing gloves, or mask, not maintaining their distance, and wanting to do good customer service, will talk for some time to a customer through their car door window, or if a customer walks up to them to talk. We stopped picking up food ordered to go for this reason, from these restaurants.
It does not help at all if the public stands behind you 1-2 ft. in line at a grocery store. We had to jump out of line to maintain any distance.
So that is why we do not shop that way anymore. It is a learning situation, we tried, but stopped early March.
Looking again for delivery online, but if we had to, we could be ok for 25-30 days, I think. Now is critical to avoid going out.
Even doctors disagree.
I am staying home.
Here is my opinion for us, at this time, subject to changes:
But hubs is out riding his bike, and that is supposed to be okay.
But using a public restroom, or going to a park or trail that is closed is not ok. Going inside the bike store is not advisable, even though they are open. Having a bike accident will take up ER beds and time, and will also expose him to C-19. Using a bus to get home because he gets tired is also not ok.
Bringing the virus home is also not ok.
Why won't people that can stay home, just stay home to limit the spread of the virus? Especially people who do not have the cognitive ability to be safe 'out there'?
I don't get it. I hate it that people want to make their own excuses why it is okay for them to not be safer at home.
Some parishes are now doing curfews along with mandatory lockdown.
Cluster outbreaks in our facilities. Deaths among our elderly are increasing in our facilities due to this virus.
A pastor of o Pentecostal church in the Baton Rouge area has been arrested because he won’t stop holding services. That’s just crazy! Our governor has told him to stop. Apparently, he feels he is above the law! Ridiculous religious fanaticism.
Be cautious, clean products from stores. One of our big stores closed for cleaning. Yep! Trader Joe’s in Metairie, La. (burb of New Orleans) has been shut down for cleaning because two employees tested positive for the virus. Grrrrr.
W/o going into detail, the mask can help protect YOU against voluntary or involuntary "expulsions" (for lack of a more dignified term) from others. That includes sneezing, coughing, hacking or talking adults or children.
I guess we never know how much we might be releasing from our mouths, just by opening them, or what might be released from our nasal passages, especially when sneezing.
On another issue, my niece is also making hair masks as that's what they're wearing as well, and as might be anticipated in this shortage of needed supplies, they need the hair masks as well.
It's unfortunate that so many people offering opinions have their own ideas, influenced or not by their own experiences and professions, b/c the mixed messages that are being sent aren't offering comfort to the rest of us.
Hope this helps.
I understand they wanted to save masks for people working in hospitals, it's fair enough and they do have priority, but saying that masks won't protect you is taking it too far. It happened the same here. It's simply false, in China the only people who didn't catch the virus were the ones wearing masks indoor, it has been proven.
I called the lab. They're allowing 5 people at a time into the lab. Line goes out side the building's door. Mostly elderly people. Recommends I try to come in at 9am. She laughed when I mumbled, "I wonder if I can last that long without coffee."
If it won't adversely affect your health?
One of the mountain counties has adopted a resolution to make it illegal for anyone to sell anything that is not essential, actually developed a list. Imagine Walmart only selling food, no clothing, makeup, toys, recreational equipment, kitchen appliances and the list goes on and on.
One of our mountain towns has passed an ordinance where the town will pay the rent for downtown area businesses. Makes sense, the town needs these merchants to be able to reopen, and the landlords to continue maintenance and payments on those buildings. Quite the trickle down effect.
Sad for all the high school seniors that won’t get to go to prom and have an official graduation :(
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMBh-eo3tvE&feature=youtu.be
Thanks, I think!
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My mother's short-term memory maybe going, but she remembered me telling her to stay away from people. Some times they are just funny!
The extreme preppers and the extreme doomsday type cults!
It’s called Kulacloth. Kulacloth.com
Toilet paper problem solved!
Designed for backpacking.
My BIL was invited over for dinner to a friend's house. He got there, and She, the hostess is coughing, sneezing, etc.... He has ASTHMA since he was a child... Did she know this? I kinda doubt it... And is she Aware that these may be symptoms of COVID19? Maybe, but it didn't cross her mind...
Likewise, I saw my neighbors, and the lil girl is so sweet, and bored. She sang me a song, and I gave her a "hi 5". Her mom was just about to have a heart attack. I didn't think once, about social distancing.. my fault. This kid is just 4.. and she asks her mom why this holiday is so long. I can tell you, she goes to the same school my kid went to 15 yeas ago.The director my kid had, would have made sure these kids know why this is happening. My kid's classmates endured and was taught about death.. Unfortunately, their friend/classmate died, and the director of the montessori school did not sugar coat it much. She explained life.. she explained death, and approached that subject so wonderfully... And I guarantee most children understood what it was they were dealing with. This happens. So, how do you tell your kids or loved ones you cannot visit sometimes? It does go both ways... Kids are probably wondering why they are not allowed to visit grandma or grandpa..
What do you tell a child or an elderly?
On the other end are my grandson-in-law who is dealing with his mother being in hospice. My granddaughter gives me daily updates and their family is having a rough time coming to terms with her death.
These are trying times and will bring out peoples true natures. I hope we all find the strength we need to get through this.
My friend sent me an email link to click on to see her virtual concert. Was so sweet to hear her sing and see her pretty face. I enjoyed that.
That is sad.
A friend of mine is married to a state trooper. An intruder got into her house one morning. She told her husband that she wanted a gun.
The first thing her husband said to her was, “You are not getting a gun until you take lessons, then lots of target practice after that because if not, the intruder will get the gun away from you and kill you with your own gun!”
Got the low down on the TP DISPENSE ... Got up in time went to that market before 10:30 .. And then 10;50 , i was talking to some random person in isle 10.. we were waiting for the pallets to be placed... not yet. I asked if he would watch my cart of a minute while I meandered around the store for a minute for other stuff, ...Whoa, and behold!! the magical pallet appeared in ISLE 14 !!! I scrambled, grabbed my 2 limit's worth of the 'GOLDEN TP'.. Ran back to isle 10 and told my new TP friend, IT'S HERE !! Hurry.... ISLE 14 !!. He asked if I could watch his cart,, I said no, take it with you for a ramming rod just in case (kidding),
I ran out almost 2 weeks ago... we were using any kind of tissue. I was in panick mode by now..
Got to the checkers and only one PACK PER PERSON. Thank goodness I was shopping for my aunt's supplies too... She needed some, and also apple sauce, breakfast carnation etc... 2 packages of TP will get us through for a bit, until I get the nerve up to hunt again. I'm in California.
My cousin , Michigan.. stores are out of kitchen garbage bags... huh? Does every state have a certain product they are low on?
We are low on garlic.. TP, Water, although, lowes had 4 new pallets), so maybe water is not a big commodity now, people found their gas stoves, pitchers with filters, and they ADULT SIPPY CUPS?... Ya, I didn't run out of water, my kitchen sink has a faucet. and we have a filter, and a gas stove... hmm, I remember in the early 70's, stores started to sell bottled water...? What is that a thing? and we laughed.. I was a kid..certainly wished I knew about how stocks worked... maybe not.
In the meantime, can he send an email request to his supervisor if he can leave earlier from the project due to 2 coworkers are confirmed cases and bro has a heart problem. He is on CPAP and he does struggle to breathe when he walks long distance. If that fails, escalate to HR. If that fails, then just hunker down and be paranoid. (Then I messaged him the YouTube video 'They're Coming to Take Me Away Ha-Haa')
And Shell.....people are really letting their lack of common sense come out. So many people are refusing to take this seriously because they don’t know what city the people testing positive live in! We all need to act like it is EVERYWHERE and take proper precautions! Over here they aren’t telling us what city the COVID patients live in. They are just telling us the number of positive tests in this county and how the transmission occurred. We are up to 32 as of last nights. It seems like a lot of people need to hear “5 people in city A, 10 in city b” before they take it seriously! Until then they will act like it’s not in their city! I really don’t understand the way these people think. If it’s in your county, you are at risk and you need to take precautions and stay home! But sooooo many people don’t get that! Every time the media updates us on the number people ask what city the patients live in....why does it even matter? The virus is here!!!
Sorry to hear of your lack of getting paper products and especially almost getting hit! Ugh!!
Common Sense is a superpower that must people don't seem to have these days! Here, they are telling us how many cases and in what cities!! But people are just grouping together in parks and at Lowe's today! We do have a small amount of cases in my city, but Covid is growing very fast in one of our major cities.
However, I do get what your saying about the police. The first responders do need to be safe...we need them!! It is just frustrating!
For my sig other and myself, we do act like everyone is infected; I just wish everybody else would do the same! I guess I am just tired of stupid people!!😡
Well, people were taken to their homes until that announcement. Now, people are out and about like nothing is going on. Had to go to Lowe's for one little thing and I could not believe how busy they were and people grouping together! Yikes!! As I was going through the store with my sig other it was like being in a videogame. We were dodging people making sure we stayed 6ft away from people! We got what we needed and got the heck out of there!
No one in my area is taking Covid seriously! Do the people in my city don't watch the news? Do they think it is not going to happen here? The whole east side of my state is highly infected with Covid! Ugh!! I just wish people would stay home! We do!!! Won't be going anywhere for awhile!