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I'm a single woman in late 90s, no longer having family or close friends. I think I need an estate lawyer but was told to find an elder law lawyer. Any ideas please? Thank you so much for a prompt response. :)

Last time you asked this question, you got a lot of useful answers:

https://www.agingcare.com/questions/are-you-as-i-without-family-or-close-friends-486456.htm

To find an Elder Care attorney, scroll to the bottom of this page under Elder Care Resources and click on Elder Law Attorneys. Then call one in your state.

Good luck.
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I would also look to hire a Geriatric Care Manager. A lawyer will help get your legal ducks in a row, but who will look after you when your health and independence starts to diminish?

Also consider researching a care community, where you transition yourself rather than it having to happen in a crisis and you have no choice in the matter? I would look for reputable faith-based facilities where they see the care as a mission and will look after you more like a family member. My MIL is in such a place, run by Presbyterian Homes, one of the largest in the country and been around since the 50s. It's non-profit and very well run with caring people. Also the Ebenezer Society has many facilities nationwide. Some churches run small NHs (my MIL was first in one run by the Moravian Church in MN).

One of the biggest problems for the elderly is loneliness. It is more satisfying to be among people than to be by oneself alone in their home.

Scripture wisely observes that,

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up."

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

I wish you much wisdom and peace in your heart as you plan.
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What is it you wish to do?
Will would be a Trust and Estate attorney.
To help you manage your money and your life ongoing would be an elder law attorney. They often work through the courts with Licensed Fiduciaries who act for elders without families or for elders with families at war in which case a judge will appoint them to manage care, placement, bill paying, accounts, investments and so on.

So again, it depends upon what you are looking to accomplish.
Can you tell us more?
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