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We usually get together with my sister for the holidays but as she isn't speaking to us that's a no go. I think I will just get a few things, ham, stuffing, pumpkin pie and have a low key holiday for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I would take mom on a trip somewhere but I am planning a trip to Florida next spring that we should both enjoy so I think we will stay home for the holidays.
This will be the first time it's just me and my mom for Thanksgiving but I think it could be nice. I am starting to get to the point where I am ok without being around other family members. I never realized how much anxiety i'd go through whenever my mom and sister were together. They would make little snide remarks to each other most of the time and be on the edge of fighting. It seems like is the year for seeking peace and rest so a quiet holiday should fit the bill.

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I am doing Bob Evans farmhouse meal. We have done thisca couplecof times and turned out great. Will add a couple of dishes of my own.

Since my oldest is an RN we do Lasagna. She usually worked Christmas for those who had children. Never sure if she would get home on time. Lasagna can be kept warm.
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Agree-a catered dinner is THE choice for us past few yrs. . We stay home , despite being welcome to join siblings for the Holiday -we're just too "set in our ways" to feel a big Connection with another Families traditions., or lifestyle. Sometimes our adult children join us, usually at least One. Fine with me-always appreciate at least not being totally alone for the Holidays. We;ve also gone out to dinner a couple of times, which was very nice, but having already been dealing with my spouses disability I 'd rather enjoy dinner in our own space at Home, and avoid germs spreading around a dessert table , or over patrons seated too close by ., coughing, sneezing, etc.. So -very fortunate to at least have each other .
Previously , a daughter & myself would also go participate in the Turkey Trot race , but this year, choose to do our own pre-dinner "work-out" and socializing , walking or bike-riding at our local trails, and exchanging greetings with those passing by and who are also making a good walk or bike ride a priority before the Big Feast!
For decades we've "had to make our Own " Holiday, and the big gathering round the table is a thing of the past. Of course-the More the Merrier-but really only if we are all still compatible., and long distance separates us . We enjoy the Peace, the Quiet, the Feast ,and keeping it Simple over cooking and dishes. Families under pressure to host a Big Dinner have actually ended up envying how Easy our plan is every year , particularly over the Clean Up! We still look forward to it all very much !
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That actually sounds really nice, pretty perfect to me. Id love to just stay home with hubby and watch the Christmas story over and over, in a new pair of PJS. 🙂
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Order a nice Thanksgiving dinner from a local supermarket for you and mom. Heat and eat, no work for you. That's the only way I ever want to celebrate Thanksgiving ever again!
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