If your Mom has dementia, siblings should not be the ones caring for Mom. Mom needs live Medical Professionals. There are Medical Professionals that will donate their time and expertise for Dementia patients. Mom would stay and home and have three Medical Professionals serving strictly her. The only cost is providing meals and lodging for the Medical Professionals.
Sorry but what you’ve posted is pretty far fetched. Don’t come here to guilt those of us that had to place our elderly loved ones in LTC.
time that we're paying for. How do I get tickets to your alternate reality??
Sounds amazing! Where I live all that in home care costs a fortune.