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Legal guardianship is a lengthy and expensive process, but it is probably the best way to handle the responsibilities for an ill relative. But there's another way. I am working on it now, so I don't have all the answers. It's called "Representative Payee", where anyone (even a local organization) can be empowered to receive the Social Security monies of that person and ensure they are being spent properly. It will probably involve keeping reports, etc., but you won't have the burden of becoming the legal provider for all of that individual's needs. Here's a link: http://www.ssa.gov/payee/
The social worker at the hospital is usually the 'go to' person for this kind of issue. Obviously the prognosis will determine her eligibility, as well as her age.
As one of the previous posters stated "watch out for the sharks." There is no need to give anyone thousands of dollars to apply for social security. There is more than enough information on this site and social security sites to do the paperwork yourself.
Go on line, I did it for my brother. It's a pain. But you can do it. You don't have to have POA, it will ask you if you are filling this out for someone and if you will be helping her, say yes so you can do the phone interview. And if you go on line read up on SSI, that was a great help to me There is a list of diseases that qualify right now for temporary SSI. Give as much details as possible when filling out the info. Don't miss the phone interview because that pushes it back. Good luck!
So sorry for this stressful and sad time in your lives. The hospital will have a social worker on her case. They also want to get paid so if she is not on medical or medicare they will start the process. Please keep us informed as to what happens, my thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
One shortcut is to see if she has a Durable Power of Attorney document naming you. If she does, you can transact business of her behalf. If she has a will, she might have also done a DPOA (we all should).
Been through this exact same situation with my mom. It's a journey. My mother recovered and gained her memory back too. She wasn't able to live alone anymore, but that was coming anyway. Hang in! And be very careful about anybody who wants thousands of dollars up front to help you... lost of sharks in these waters ; )
I'm so sorry for you and your mother. This is awful. I'm assuming that she is under 70 or likely she'd already be drawing SS.
I would do as Pstegman said - look to the county for a pro bono attorney if you need one, which is likely. You may have to be made legal guardian first as was suggested previously.
This is a lot of stress for you on top of your mother's health condition. Please keep us posted on how you both are doing. Carol
So sorry you have to deal with this. The hospital should have people who can help you with this process. Also talk to her health insurance carrier and her doctor. Let us know how you make out. If you hit snags, often the county has lawyers who will help you pro-bono (free).
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Here's a link:
http://www.ssa.gov/payee/
Been through this exact same situation with my mom. It's a journey. My mother recovered and gained her memory back too. She wasn't able to live alone anymore, but that was coming anyway. Hang in! And be very careful about anybody who wants thousands of dollars up front to help you... lost of sharks in these waters ; )
I would do as Pstegman said - look to the county for a pro bono attorney if you need one, which is likely. You may have to be made legal guardian first as was suggested previously.
This is a lot of stress for you on top of your mother's health condition. Please keep us posted on how you both are doing.
Carol