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Not just can, but should. The examples you gave are mom's private business and just because she has to share with POA to get the help she needs doesn't mean everyone gets to know.
First, do you know for sure that the person is actually the PoA? In many states the PoA is not required to prove they are the PoA by producing the paperwork. It usually requires a letter from an elder law attorney threatening to make them show it to a judge. But this is DEFCON 2 territory so you'd need a very very good reason to take it this far. And also because you'll be paying the attorney whether it is fruitful or not.
Social services (and court-assigned legal guardians) won't show family members this info either, no matter how they're related to the elder. When my SFIL became a ward his guardian immediately changed all the access to his accounts that I'd been managing, without any warning. Not that I cared -- I was glad to be done with that responsibility. Their job is to protect their ward, including their privacy. This is the same for the PoA.
Your insightful response help me in my situation POA for my aunt. The privacy perspective was my concern. My aunt never shared her wishes to others when they would ask her. I didn't believe it was by job. Now that her heth is declining rapidly. The POA will be null & void. However she has already added my name as beneficiary. Again Thank you for your response
Yes. The POA for Health is under no obligation to share any information. As a matter of fact to share information is a violation of HIPAA regulations. The POA for Finance is under no obligation to share financial information. Fiduciary laws are also strict. They (the POA) are obligated to protect financial information.
If you think there is a problem you can contact an Elder Care Attorney and express your concerns. If you think there is financial abuse you can report your concerns to your States Elder Abuse number.
Unfortunately, yes they can. In addition, the institutions associated with the holder of POA such as a bank, medical staff or other workers would not be at liberty to release such information.
Sadly, it can leave out loving and caring family members. It can also leave you wondering if they have something nefarious to hide.
I believe the only way around it is to hire a lawyer and seek advice. I also believe most actions they may take involve a lot of time, so be prepared.
Yes. Your mom's financial affairs are no one's business, except for the person she chose to designate as POA. If you suspect that person of abusing their role to take advantage of mom's finances, then you can try taking it to court, but you'd better be prepared to show evidence of wrongdoing.
As for DNR, that is something which should be posted, clearly, near the patient, for ALL to see. It is typically on red or orange paper to stand out.
I see no problem in a POA confirming that a DNR is in place. A Will, POAs have nothing to do with Wills because POA stops at death and the Executor then takes over. But I see no problem saying one is in place. But investments and banking, they cannot share that info.
HIPAA has nothing to do with family sharing info. It has to do with providers and them not allowing to share your information unless u allow it. Thats why in a doctors office you have to sign off that its OK for them to share your info with your insurance company or another doctor or facility.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Social services (and court-assigned legal guardians) won't show family members this info either, no matter how they're related to the elder. When my SFIL became a ward his guardian immediately changed all the access to his accounts that I'd been managing, without any warning. Not that I cared -- I was glad to be done with that responsibility. Their job is to protect their ward, including their privacy. This is the same for the PoA.
The POA for Health is under no obligation to share any information. As a matter of fact to share information is a violation of HIPAA regulations.
The POA for Finance is under no obligation to share financial information. Fiduciary laws are also strict. They (the POA) are obligated to protect financial information.
If you think there is a problem you can contact an Elder Care Attorney and express your concerns.
If you think there is financial abuse you can report your concerns to your States Elder Abuse number.
Sadly, it can leave out loving and caring family members. It can also leave you wondering if they have something nefarious to hide.
I believe the only way around it is to hire a lawyer and seek advice. I also believe most actions they may take involve a lot of time, so be prepared.
Your mom's financial affairs are no one's business, except for the person she chose to designate as POA. If you suspect that person of abusing their role to take advantage of mom's finances, then you can try taking it to court, but you'd better be prepared to show evidence of wrongdoing.
As for DNR, that is something which should be posted, clearly, near the patient, for ALL to see. It is typically on red or orange paper to stand out.
HIPAA has nothing to do with family sharing info. It has to do with providers and them not allowing to share your information unless u allow it. Thats why in a doctors office you have to sign off that its OK for them to share your info with your insurance company or another doctor or facility.
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