My grandmother was recently hospitalized for emotional outbursts and agitation. She likes to read religious books and watch news, but these things (I believe) are what caused her to have the agitation, (combined with lack of sleep). I have tried to limit her from reading and try to limit bad news, but when I do, she gets upset with me. Am I being too nervous and controlling? Should I let her read or watch what she wants? I am just afraid she could have another outburst and I won't be able to calm her. I don't have anyone else to help me, and the stress of watching over her is causing me to have chest pressure. It's hard to talk to her normally now. Any advice is appreciated.
Her doctor prescribed anxiety medication and it did help. Having chest pressure, is not good. Both my husband and I developed high blood pressure during our caretaking. YOU NEED A BREAK!!!!! Any chance she could go to an adult day care program? My heart goes out to you - being the only one taking care of an elderly relative is extremely difficult - I know what it is like and it is sooooooo stressful.
Take care,
Carol