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The shower is shut off for repair. She is in a wheelchair and does not stand on her own. I have to use a gait belt to stand her up. I thought of trying to put her legs over the edge and then getting in tub to stand her. I think that is risky though.
Please don't try to get her in the bathtub as that is an accident waiting to happen. It sounds like at this point she really needs a walk in shower, or even one that her wheel chair can be rolled into. If that's not possible where she lives, you may just have to use the extra large body wipes and waterless shampoo and conditioner caps to clean her with. You can order those on Amazon or Walmart.com
I would think getting mom down into the tub and back out would be a two person assist.
Does your mom have a primary doctor? If so, call the doctor and ask for a home health agency to visit. They can help your mom get a bathing bench and also help her bathe. Since that probably will take a few days to get set up, a bed bath might be the safest option.
Do a search on this site for tips on bathing an elder. it is a common issue with elders.
First, tell the landlord to fix the shower immediately. You aren't paying rent for a non-functional shower. Ask for a handheld shower while you're at it.
Next, rent or buy a sliding bath bench. She sits on the bench (on the outside of the tub), then you slide the seat over the tub area, lifting her legs over the tub edge as needed.
This isn't ideal, as it's still not the safest option, but at least Mom isn't trying to climb into the tub.
Here's what they look like --
DMI Tub Transfer Bench and Shower Chair with Non Slip Aluminum Body, Adjustable Seat Height and Cut Out Access, Holds Weight up to 400 Lbs, Bath and Shower Safety, Transfer Bench https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000NGUD94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_ZN3JA9P4H97CKBYA7K6H
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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If that's not possible where she lives, you may just have to use the extra large body wipes and waterless shampoo and conditioner caps to clean her with. You can order those on Amazon or Walmart.com
I would think getting mom down into the tub and back out would be a two person assist.
Does your mom have a primary doctor? If so, call the doctor and ask for a home health agency to visit. They can help your mom get a bathing bench and also help her bathe.
Since that probably will take a few days to get set up, a bed bath might be the safest option.
Do a search on this site for tips on bathing an elder. it is a common issue with elders.
Next, rent or buy a sliding bath bench. She sits on the bench (on the outside of the tub), then you slide the seat over the tub area, lifting her legs over the tub edge as needed.
This isn't ideal, as it's still not the safest option, but at least Mom isn't trying to climb into the tub.
Here's what they look like --
DMI Tub Transfer Bench and Shower Chair with Non Slip Aluminum Body, Adjustable Seat Height and Cut Out Access, Holds Weight up to 400 Lbs, Bath and Shower Safety, Transfer Bench https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000NGUD94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_ZN3JA9P4H97CKBYA7K6H