My mom is currently in the hospital after taking a fall. She is terminal (breast & posible brain cancer). We have it in both of our wills a paragraph that states our wishes should we become incapacitated, something to the effect of “we want no extrema measures taken to prolong our life”.. Is that a “DNR”? If not, what do I need to do to get one for my mom? And I’m assuming I’ll need to give that to the doctor whose currently taking care of my mom while she’s in the hospital. Their plan is to transfer her to a rehab facility. I’m also assuming the rehab place will need a copy of the DNR as well?? Please, any advice on this & how to proceed. We are both each others POA for health & finances (in our wills we had made up together at the same time 10 yrs ago). Thank you.
Ask the hospital for a POLST form. This form outlines more than just DNR (do not resuscitate ).
It's bright pink with black lettering. She can pick from whatever choices for her ending care she wants.
It will become part of her chart and will be noted on the front of the chart to not resuscitate.
Because transfers to other facilities can be hectic, make sure the rehab has the copy and understands her wishes. Have them show it to you.
I know my step mom, with no known medical issues, also has them in both cars and her home. She informed me of this.
It is better to have a "Medical Directive" drawn up by an "Elder Law Attorney", this legal document gives directions on your care. My parents both had such a document and it was such a great guideline for me to follow. I also have such a document for myself.
A DNR notice can be shown on a paper (different colors in different states), or on the wrist of the patient as a bracelet, if they live in a ALF, nursing home care or are in the hospital.
The DNR paperwork is normally within the patient's medical history which is transferred when the patient is transferred.
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