My mom will be 90 this month. She was a medical secretary in the years during wwii and falls back on her" training " in that era as a reference for every raised eyebrow or tone of voice any of her docs exhibit. She is always convinced that some major cancer is around the corner. She had a mastectomy in 1987, has chf and labile high blood pressure. Her anxieties about her health are making her more disabled than she actually is. Any thoughts about this?