Last night, as mom and I changed into her PJs I noticed she seemed very preoccupied when there's a reflection on the ceiling from the TV, or someone's shadow. I turned the lights on and assured her that it was from the TV, she understood and was redirected; that is until I turned the lights out again. I did mention this to the Nurse while I was there, as mom seemed to get a bit concerned about it. They said they would keep an eye on her but, I can't help but think that mom focused on the unknown shadows/reflections after I left last night (even if for only a moment). Is there anything that will help aside from turning the light on and making them disappear? is there any medication Dementia patients can get relief from for this issue. Or will it just get worse? She's not hallucinating, there are reflections and shadows there. Thanks in Advance for your comments and sugggestions. Floridagirl6
As the Sundowner's progresses, you will also find you will need to stand under a light and wait for Mom to recognize you.
I learned to do that and it saved DH and me a lot of grief when he didn't know who I was and wanted to know where I was. I'd just stand under the ceiling light and wait until he would say, "oh! there you are." And he'd smile.
Turn off outside light sources if possible or pull shades & curtains. Maybe keep a low wattage light on to ward off these reflections.
We can reason away what they are, someone with dementia cannot.
As far as why, remember seeing shapes in the clouds when you were a kid? Or perhaps even imagining something in your own bedroom when outside lights 'play' on the walls or ceiling? Mom is likely just having the same kind of issue. Not hallucinating, just imagining because she can't really process what it is.
BTW, love your profile "I'm trying to cherish every moment we still have." Keep on cherishing, even the little scary moments when you can comfort her!
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