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Has anyone had issues with a nursing home mishandling trust funds?


The nursing my mom is at has a trust in her name, and they pay out all her bills from it. Being her legal guardian, we shop for my mom. We buy clothes, bed clothes, shoes, whatever we think she might want or need since there is plenty of money in her trust fund. That's been fine until before Christmans last year. The front office stopped paying her last receipts we turned in. We'd call, they'd give us the run around that they haven't got to. After two months, I got a hold of the office manager, and she said they weren't paying it. Thanks for tellng me after two months. There is a 'new' policy that everything has to be brought to them for inspection . Now since the tags are off, her names in all her clothes, and she is wearing them, they cannot accept them as proof. This new policy isn't in writing, just something they come up with. I get the feeling she just made it up. I had to wonder why they didn't tell me there was a problem on day one I turned in the receipts in, instead of acting like they were to pay it, they were just busy. Why I can't prove anything, i got this feeling that they are running a game on me. My wife mentioned that they have the receipts too. They could "pay-out" the receipts to themselves, and my mom's account would balance out. Thinking she is right. If they weren't going to pay for the items without inventorying them, why didn't they send the receipts back with a letter, and the new policy explaining, instead running this delay tractic on us.


My wife even suggested that they could be doing this to impede us from buying her new clothes, as a passive-aggressive way to get back at mom for outburst she has. We won't spend money on and buy her all the nice clothes she likes, if they refuse to pay receipts.


I am at a loss. I can't believe they can just refuse to pay. Anyone has any ideas. We are considering moving her, because I don't think I can trust the now.

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This situation is ripe for financial abuse. Contact a lawyer to help you find way to get the trust under your control ASAP.
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not sure if too late now however anyone who is putting their loved one in a nursing home, you should never sign everything over to the nursing home for them to pay out of your loved ones funds. someone should have advised you to take the funds, put into an account and have the nursing home send you the bills to pay for your mom and then YOU pay the bills and give the payment to the home. This way they have to provide you with what they are doing and what the money is being used for. Get in contact with an Elder attorney right away. wishing you luck.
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Is mom on medicaid? So that the "trust" you refer to is actually her personal needs allowance (PNA) that is held at the facility to pay for incidentals not covered by Medicaid? The $ is in a PNA "trust" and not a traditional drawn up by a lawyer trust or a true Special Needs Trust?

If so, Medicaid rules do NOT require for the residents monthly income to go directly to the NH. The resident can still continue to have their bank account and get their SS & retirement income go into their bank account & then they or their DPOA can write a check for the exact copay or SOC to the NH. The copay amount will be in the eligibility letter from Medicaid. Their bank account will increase by whatever your state has its PNA each month. (Like for my mom in TX it was $ 60 a month.) If you do this, you must be mindful that the bank account cannot be more than 2K as 2K is the asset limit for medicaid. So if mom had say $ 1,500 of assets in the account when she initially applied for Medicaid, after a few months, she will be over the limit. So it will need to get spent to be under 2k always.

They do not have to have a resident trust account at the NH. It is really a convenience for resident, DPOA & the facility to have one. What they are used for is for weekly beauty /barber visits and if there is a canteen or store at the facility. My mom used her PNA for beauty shoppe each week and to buy candy & when the scout troops came to buy cookies or popcorn. I kept it at around $ 200 and NH sent a statement on it every 90 days.

If NH is telling you it's being debited to pay for mandatory cable, or phone, you as DPOA can decline that mom has those under Medicaid rules. This seems to be a commom ruse for NH. If NH is telling you that mom must have her monthly income sent to them, that is flat not true under Medicaid rules. If they are telling you mom must have a PNA trust that they hold, that is not true. If you live in moms city and are active in her life, there could be no need ever for use of a PNA trust at the NH as you can easily pay the hairdresser, do her clothes & toiletries shopping, etc. Hell, if mom is still ambulatory, you can take her out to shop either on your own or on a field trip done by activities director of the NH.

If you as DPOA pay the SOC, the NH may press on you to personally sign off on a contract to pay or contract on late fees.......you don't have to do this if they are on Medicaid. But if the check is late, they can place a late fee which you personally will have to pay as Medicaid won't.

For those whose elder is on medicaid, DPOA keeping control of funds can be really important IF you should ever want to move them from 1 NH to another NH as getting the whole direct deposit changed could be very difficult to do if your elder is very demented and cannot do whatever required for changing SSA or retirement .

If this is private pay, then however the admissions contract reads is what can be done. Review all pages of the contract for that situation.
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Agreed. Contact the attorney who prepared the trust document and have them name you as trustee. But know being a trustee requires explicit record-keeping and documentation. If the nursing home is not giving you an accounting, something is very wrong. Call the attorney today.
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Get in touch with the local Ombudsman- they are there to help mediate problems like this one. Maybe even just taking that step will help the nursing home rethink their new "policy".
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Don't mess around with the "kids" of the nursing home----GO RIGHT TO THE TOP with your questions----do it in the form of a elettter----print it out as well as send it through the net and send it......nursing homes are subject to government inspections and rules and laws.....let them know you will take action to "them". Find out which government body you can get ahold of that will take action.....these homes don't want trouble and many of them do run "just on the fringe" of being legal in some cases.....Good luck-----I've had to be the squeeky wheel for my Mother too and they do stand up and take notice......if they can shut you up on the "first floor" they'll do it----they get nervous if they know you'll go to the "top"
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Even though a change in policy may have happened it sounds pretty arbitrary. I visited a facility that said refunds can be issued Mon-Thurs for anything that fits within the criteria of "personal needs" - up to the amount of money actually in the trust at the time a receipt is presented. They did not have any list of items that were and were not considered acceptable. It sounds like the facility may be doing an after-the-fact CYA because someone mis-spent somebody's funds. This could have been staff or family. I would make copies of receipts for items purchased because once they have your receipts it would be harder to prove. I would ask why they suddenly changed policy.
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Your being taken for a ride by this company...look to move your mom first off & GET A GOOD ATTORNEY....The law is on your side. DO IT ASAP....
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Yes get in touch with your states ombudsman and find a good lawyer.Allot of lawyers no days make the abuser pay the lawyer fees.Then proceed to find a better nursing home.Let the state step in and they will guide you through the process .There is no excuse for this.It is financial abuse.Have you all documented records? Receipts etc ,timelines etc.I worked in a place that had one book for the state and the real one locked up..unfortunately for the abuser the families knew about the locked up book and wooosh the person went to prison...do not feel guilty for taking action,you will save allot of people allot of turmoil.they will tahnk you
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Ken,

1. As Igloo asked, specifically what kind of trust is this? What's the title of it (leave out names, just explain what it's titled)?

2. Who's named as Settlor - your mother? Is there any issue that she might not be cognizant to revoke the Trust?

3. Who are the Trustee(s) and successor Trustees?

4. What are their SPECIFIC roles?

If they've breached the specific terms of the trust, there may be a cause to terminate it for breach of fiduciary capacity. This is an issue for an attorney to help you with. If the nursing home's law firm drew up the trust, which I suspect, absolutely do not contact them or ask for help.

Find your own independent counsel who works for you.
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