She is currently in our home and I cannot care for her. I have been looking at facilities and they all range around the same as far as price. She does not qualify for Medicaid. The biggest obstacle is going to be her two small dogs. They will need to be surrendered, we already have three dogs. She will be devastated, but we don't have a choice.
It is sad. But as I always say, not everything can be fixed. I would imagine you have been trying everything. I sure wish you good luck. The rescue that I work with does just this often, placing dogs whose elders have either died, or had to go into placement. The dogs do adapt and adjust so quickly to their new fosters, and to their new homes. We are early 80s, and this is precisely why we have not got ourselves other dogs after the passing of our final little elder girl dog. We keep our hands in with fostering, but don't want this burden for our families.
Good luck.
Best wishes to you and your family.
The other option that might work is if they are "litter trained" and she can have someone come in and take the dogs for walks.
And now it is nearly two years later. Are you ready to put her in AL yet, even if you have to get rid of her dogs?
Also, in Aug 2020 you wrote that your mother couldn't come and live with you, yet that is what happened. Were you able to sell her house and evict your nephew? What happened to the proceeds of the house sale (if it sold)?
I hope that it will be your mother's funds financing any facility.