I am not sure what to do. Mom is now in hospice care and not doing well. I think she is near the end. I feel somewhat guilty for not having her at my home where I can spend more time with her. But on the other hand, mom has dementia and is comfortable at her assisted living. it is five minutes from my house so I do spend a lot of time with her. I feel guilty because to be 100% honest her being here would be very difficult. She likes it to be super warm, and she has MRSA which scares me. Am I ok to leave her where she is and just spend a lot of time there?
We took car of my MIL the last few weeks, in her home. It was terribly difficult, even though we hired people to help cover night so we could get a break. Save your energy so you can truly be there with her, rather than exhausted.