My Mom’s primary provider won’t refer her to a long-term nursing home. Mom is 80, her behavior with Alzheimers is very aggressive. She can’t stay in a memory care facility because she can’t get along with people. I think she’ll hurt them since she’s threatened caregivers already. Can I go around the her primary doctor some how?
The next time she threatens, or hallucinates, call 911 and have her transported to the hospital.
Get a psychiatric evaluation while she is there.
Tell discharge planning she can no longer be managed at home and needs placement.
Ask her current physician to recommend a geriatric psychologist/psychiatrist who can administer testing and develop a behavioral management plan for you to use in finding a residential site that can handle aggressive clients.
If her current physician can’t/won’t help, by all means seek out a 2nd opinion.
USE her current doctor if you can, but doesn’t lose sight of the fact that she AND YOU need solutions. If Current Doctor Isn’t helping you to solve her problems, look for someone who will. Good Luck, and take GOOD CARE of YOURSELF, too.
A neurologist can prescribe meds that will help, run tests and an MRI. This will tell him what Dementia she has. He can refer her to a NH.
I would wonder why your PCP refuses to refer her to a NH. Sounds to me she is 24/7 care.