kicked out of a VA foster home after only 6 weeks sent back to the hosp, then sent to a nursing home and after 3 days they booted him out. Back to the VA hosp. Spent a month there while SS services were trying to find a place for him. Found it last Thurs. Got a call 3 days later they had to send him back to the VA. The reason for all this mess is he gets angry and has hit 2 people so far. My BIL seems to be fine all day and wins everyone over then at night this Hyde comes out. Yes it is dementia, but we feel that that is all the medical staff look at even though they know his history of bi-polar, PTSD, OCD and dyslexia. The newest AFC home that he was in said they will take him back IF he gets his meds improved. Depakote and just recently a mere 25mg of ceraquil. So, my question is..... can we be forced to take him back home considering he has these rage issues? A note to this is, he resents and has threatened his brother (my hub) who is older and has been taking care of him since 2014. The thought of his being sent back here is upsetting the heck out of me.
He first needs geriatric psych hospital evaluation to get meds to stabalize him.