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I don't know that many seniors are happy in care. Your Dad didn't enter into MC faciliity to create happiness. It was a move that had to made for his safety and well being. I think throughout a long life there has to have been many times that your Dad was unhappy. I think that often our feelings come and go like weather systems. Sometimes they settle in for a spell and we have a really wet winter.
I am assuming that Dad, if he wishes to has already talked to his doctor. Sometimes a mild anti-depressant is worthwhile to build a bridge across truly depressing times. HOWEVER, not everything in life can be fixed. No one caused your Dads problems and no one can fix them for him. Aging can often be a long process of loss upon loss. And there is no upside coming where we get to reverse it and start getting younger, healthier, in less pain, wiser and in better balance, less prone to illness. I am 80. I know. Losses continue.
This is the long way to say not everything can be fixed. Allow Dad to express himself. Don't negate what he says. Tell him your are sorry he feels low. Ask him if there is anything feasible you can do to help. Ask him if he might like to try counseling or medications. BUT ABOVE ALL, do not then pick up his luggage and haul it around with you. Again, you didn't create this, and you can't fix it and life is full of happiness AND unhappiness.
Dementia often causes chemical changes in the brain; those changes can bring on or worsen depression.
Get a consult with a geriatric psychiatrist. Dad may needs meds; if he's already on an antidepressant, he may need different or an additional medication.
We had a really heartwarming result when we connected with the geriatric behavioral psychiatrist that our LO’s memory care recommended.
She recommended small doses of an anti depressant/anti anxiety medication, and saw LO on a regular check in basis.
She was able to give us helpful advice concerning LO’s care and management, kept in touch with me often, and advised the care staff when problems popped up.
Definitely worth a try. Hope you can find someone really good, and soon.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I don't know that many seniors are happy in care. Your Dad didn't enter into MC faciliity to create happiness. It was a move that had to made for his safety and well being.
I think throughout a long life there has to have been many times that your Dad was unhappy. I think that often our feelings come and go like weather systems. Sometimes they settle in for a spell and we have a really wet winter.
I am assuming that Dad, if he wishes to has already talked to his doctor. Sometimes a mild anti-depressant is worthwhile to build a bridge across truly depressing times.
HOWEVER, not everything in life can be fixed. No one caused your Dads problems and no one can fix them for him. Aging can often be a long process of loss upon loss. And there is no upside coming where we get to reverse it and start getting younger, healthier, in less pain, wiser and in better balance, less prone to illness. I am 80. I know. Losses continue.
This is the long way to say not everything can be fixed. Allow Dad to express himself. Don't negate what he says. Tell him your are sorry he feels low. Ask him if there is anything feasible you can do to help. Ask him if he might like to try counseling or medications. BUT ABOVE ALL, do not then pick up his luggage and haul it around with you. Again, you didn't create this, and you can't fix it and life is full of happiness AND unhappiness.
I sure do wish you the best.
Dementia often causes chemical changes in the brain; those changes can bring on or worsen depression.
Get a consult with a geriatric psychiatrist. Dad may needs meds; if he's already on an antidepressant, he may need different or an additional medication.
She recommended small doses of an anti depressant/anti anxiety medication, and saw LO on a regular check in basis.
She was able to give us helpful advice concerning LO’s care and management, kept in touch with me often, and advised the care staff when problems popped up.
Definitely worth a try. Hope you can find someone really good, and soon.