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First and foremost you both will need to figure out who will be your Power of Attorney (and it cannot be each other, it needs to be someone significantly younger than yourself, local, competent and willing).

This would be a discussion with a certified elder law attorney (CELA). I have a form that names a legal guardian of my choosing, should the situation turn out like that (otherwise you will be court-ordered a 3rd party guardian by a judge).

You should consider transitioning yourselves into a senior community that has a continuum of care. Without family, there won't be anyone to legally be able to get you proper care so you will need to plan to move *before* you think you "need" it. This will also mean figuring out your finances to pay for such care. The reality is, without family to help, you won't be able to age-in-place in your home for long. Also, the cost of hiring out help is outrageous anymore (not to mention trying find the help in the first place).

Also consider hiring a Geriatric Care Manager for your medical needs.
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What type of resources are you looking for?
Your local Senior Service Center might have programs that could help you if you need help. they probably are looking for Volunteers is you are looking for something to do.
But a bit more info might help get you some better answers.
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Like Grandma, I am uncertain what you are looking for?
Help?
Companions?
Hope you will give us details so we can respond.
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Your County Office of Aging can help you find resourses that are in the County you live. They will come and evaluate your situation.
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