She has dementia and does not remember us most of the time. We placed her in the nursing home because she was not sleeping, she was going out in the middle of the night, she became combatant, refused to take meds, it just got to be a bad situation all the way around so we had her placed in a nursing home. Now they want to send her home. What do I do?
You need to call a Care Conference with these people and find out what’s going on. It’s your right to meet with them as often as you need to. Insist the Director of Nursing, the social worker, the administrator, one of her aides and the floor nurse (if possible) be there. You need to find out what’s going on. Please let us know what you find out.
So, it doesn’t matter that you can’t take care of her—that she’s a danger to herself and to others? They’d send her home anyway? They would actually release her to an unsafe environment where people are afraid to be around her, where she could hurt herself or someone else? Where she doesn’t want to be. Wow.
Yes in Tx there must be a medical necessity. But there had to have been a medical necessity that got her admitted into the Nursing Home. Was she admitted for rehab? Is she not making any progress with the rehab?
What ever the reason they are wanting to release her, contact Moms Dr. Get him on board. Call him today. Get him to work on the Medical necessity issue!