There are good days and bad for my step dad, but he is pretty bad. I have caregivers taking care of them both. Recently, he has started flirting with the caregiver and asking her to do certain sexual things. She assures me that this is normal, and she is working with this. She told my mom, and this made my mom very sad. He is her whole world. Has anyone else ever had this happen?
Wishing you the best of luck.
Tell mom that it IS normal and just like so many things he does and says, it's not really HIM talking anymore. It's the dementia talking. His brain is broken. And he would never behave that way if he any choice.
Are they living at home? How often does the caregiver come over? Good for you for having help for them.
Good luck.
It is NOT any reflection on her or their marriage 😔