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Mom's condition has been changing considerably over the past month or so. For about a week she had a few occurrences of pocketing her food and forgetting to swallow. Before that she would watch the TV for hours but seemingly not really care what she was watching. Now she doesn't like watching TV at all and prefers to sit in her chair with no TV. I'm guessing the stimulation from the TV is too much for her. Also I visited her just this past Sunday for over an hour and for the first half of the visit I don't think she knew who I was, other than I was familiar to her. Doctor no longer wants to say what stage of Alzheimers she is saying there just aren't that many more stages, but it seems to me she's beginning to transition to stage 7

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You don't ask a question so I will just say that everything you're experiencing with your mom is quite normal with any of the dementias. And while it's hard to stand by and witness these changes, it's all part of the process and disease, as those with dementia only continue to get worse and worse.
It may be time to bring hospice on board if they're not already.
I wish you well as you walk this final journey with your mom.
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First timer. Thanks for your update.
You are, yes, going through what is a "normal" progression in all this. I think you are absolutely correct that at some point we become almost intolerant of "trying to keep up" with the chattering TV. At some point soothing music she may have enjoyed is so much better.

How are you, yourself, doing?
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I am sorry and feel for you. This decline can be so sad. My father has just passed and now my mom in MC has declined quickly as well. She has been having eating and swallowing issues for awhile. It has gotten worse and now she is not engaged. It’s hard for me emotionally to visit her now This disease progression is hard to accept and is beyond our control. the PA has been talking to me about entering hospice for comfort care. It’s so sad
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I need to clarify something. I'm dealing with this just fine at the moment. I have a competent aid taking care of my mom and any angst is in dealing with dishonest hospital bed salesmen. It was frustrating in the beginning as a sibling wasn't on the same page with me and gave too much autonomy to mom but that's largely been corrected
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I played music for mom at the end of her life. Old music like Sinatra and tunes she liked from the 40s. I kept it on low. Once they can no longer read or follow TV, music seems to be the best.

Sending you a hug today.
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Any time a change seems "sudden" or drastic, I think a UTI should be considered. Has she been checked for one?
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Your description suggests end stage. It might be time to consult hospice and just consider her comfort
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As others have mentioned, the relaxing music helps.
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