Our home has locks so she can't wander. Holidays near. Can we visit & secure Mom? Our home has reversed deadbolts on doors so we can lock. Mom can wander outside, because we padlocked 2 gates. If we travel during the holidays, we assume my husband & I will take turns "watching' Mom. Any tips so we can take a walk, etc. and keep Mom secure in our timeshare or another home?
Can you consider respite care or hiring full time caregivers for the weekend? Are there other family that would come for a long weekend and give you a break?
Personally, that might be best unless you can each watch her 24/7.
The two of you won't be able to enjoy your vacation if you're not getting enough sleep. You're no spring chickens.