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His brain is now damaged and can't go to SSA. Before my father became ill, he took care of everything he thought we would need, including naming my mother & me as POAs.
When my father started getting sick, my parents moved to a senior facility. We input change of address forms with the Post Office. They do not provide cards any longer for notifying people so one has to rely on the PO to take care of changes. They only do it for 6 months & then stop. Because my father got really bad within 6 months of moving, he was not mentally able to help us do much, and as things have progressed it has become worse. He is now completely bed bound. The best answers one can get from him are yes and no, but one never knows if that is what he really means. Because his legs have now pulled up in a permanent fetal position (can't even be pulled down), we cannot even get him to a car. If he has to go somewhere, it has to be by ambulance.
This year we did not get tax forms from SSA. So we got a caregiver for Daddy and I loaded Mama and all the legal papers up and we drove to the other side of the county to go to SSA. They refused to give us the tax information or change his address because they "don't recognize powers of attorney". They wanted me to bring Daddy in for him to give them permission to let me do the business. I explained why that was impossible. It did not matter. Does anyone know if this is true? Why would an agency that deals with the aged and/or ill people not recognize a POA? People are encouraged to get things ready for the possibility they may not always be able to handle their own affairs & the main agency for dealing with them refuses to honor the written, notorized wishes of the disabled? It just does not make sense. What really is crazy is the military has helped us get things changed, IRS has changed things for us. All of these Federal agencies recognize the POA. Why not SSA?
Has anyone else run into this issue?

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Unfortunately, yes. I, too, was surprised to find out that Social Security doesn't recognize POA. I ran into that with the VA and other government agencies as well. You may want to ask the attorney who drew up the POA about options since your dad isn't cognitively able to handle these issues. I've always been baffled by these rules, but that's what they are. Good luck with this. We'd really like to find out how you get around this rule.
Take care,
Carol
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Try going on-line to do whatever you need to do. When you do this on-line....well who is to know who types in whatever. Years & years ago, I went with my mom to close down 2 different banks accounts so that all was just in 1 locally based banking group (She had 3 different banks, just too much paperwork, too confusing). One of the old banks got her direct deposit of SSA and her annuity. I went on-line and just changed the direct deposit to the locally based bank routing number. Problem solved with no SSA face-to-face involvement. See if you can do the same. Good luck.
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Thanks Carol,
SSA told me I have to get a letter from his hospice doctor saying he is unable to do anything. That is in one town. Then I have to take the POA to the county courthouse with the letter & get it certified. It is in a different town. When all of that is done, I take it all back to SSA, in yet a 3rd town, & then they will appoint me as financial guardian. Full time caregivers have lots of time and energy to jump through hoops. It also means one has to hire someone to sit with the home bound while running around. Since I am the only caregiver locally, it is just ridiculous.
Because of this experience, I am taking my mother & husband, who are also disabled, to SSA the next time I go so they can appoint me their financial guardian before hand.
I think it is time for Congress to act. It is ridiculous to cause people these type of problems.
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Did the same thing! It worked.
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I had trouble getting a copy of my mother's SS benefits letter that I HAD to have for Medicaid application. Same thing, they did not recognize POA. She has Alzheimer's. They sent her a letter at the nursing home where my sister who lives near her had her sign it then FAXed it to the Medicaid office. Same problem with VA. I am still trying to get her benefits letter from them. I had to make a call back appt. with VA, then he told me one form then said no, a different form. Neither one was specific to my problem. I tried filling out one requesting the info. My sister had my mother sign the form, then FAXed it to VA office. Haven't heard anything. I feel like it is floating in space somewhere. Now what do I do? I have no idea. And what happens when someone can't sign anymore? She has these benefits direct deposited into her accounts but Medicaid won't accept that. It is ridiculous and I agree that Congress should do something. If someone has POA and the person who consented to it is now incapacitated then they NEED that person with POA to be able to do these things for them. Insane bureaucracy!
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This is such an interesting post, thank you for bringing this to our attention. What about that form they send us to sign from the SS to be able to handle their affairs, I have one and never sent it in so I must look into this. My Moms ss also goes into a joint banking account of ours which I use for her, this is okay I assume as its the only way to pay for her things. I am also her Trustee if that matters.
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Unfortunately, the SSA does not recognize POA in any manner. I had to take my disabled 90+ year old dad to the office and sign a paper making me the payee! Although dad wanted a paper check or a banking account in his name only, they would not allow him to do so. Now, I have the burden of keeping a log of every bill that he owes, travel to doctor visits, food, care, etc., and etc. In my opinion, I think it has something to do with the debt that our country is in. SSA wants to make it as difficult as possible for anyone that is not able to handle their own affairs not to be able to collect the money that they paid into SSA all the years of their lives. I wish everyone going through this luck, because in my opinion, we are only going to see things get worse due to our country being in the worst financial crisis since the Great Depression!
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I do think that SS has a form that you can fill out that makes you the trustee or something like that. Do it before you need it as anything like that takes time.
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I believe that the S.S. Administration feels that there is too much room for fraud in the appointment of a P.O.A. ( Attorney-in-Fact). First, I don't believe that there can be more than one. I may be incorrect on this.
An elder care lawyer should be employed and consulted frequently on all these issues.
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It is true that a POA is not accepted unless you are appointed to ardian by the courts. I, however, was able to "request to be the payee". I had to go to the SSA to apply to be able to handle my mom's financial affairs. This took about to weeks to process. Her SS benefits are now mailed to me as payee for my mom. The account setup is in the same manner for direct deposit. The banks are familiar with such accounts, "Request as Payee" and will complete the direct deposit for you.

Full rights will only be given if you are Legal Guardian through the courts. Not everyone will accept a notarized POA including some banking institutions.
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Well if the SSA will not accept a Durable POA, then how do you file for medicaid when the parent is not able physically or mentally to file for themselves?
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The Medicaid is handled at a State level and the durable POA might be accepted for many states will, but I can not speak to all states. SSA does not process Medicaid applications.
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Thought this might be useful to explain to all what the SSA requires of a "representative payee" ... also spells out a ton of important information to know if you are considering taking on this role for someone:

http://www.ssa.gov/payee/LessonPlan-2005-2.htm#WHATISPAYEE
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This question raises a load of other questions in dealing with the government and P.O.A. duties, and acceptance of, as well as other institutions you need to use P.O.A.
First thing I found out myself is the wording on the papers need to be specifically written for each institution that you need to do business with. One bank for example may be OK with basic, general wording, another may see it a problem if lets say it does not specifically say an address change may be made by this power for all needs. The words for a specific account may need to be stated as in the names and numbers of accounts etc. , if the words are not written as the institutions legal department see's fit they can deny you using the papers for a certain purpose.
As for Government .... I found that they have there own way of dealing with a P.O.A. situation. I believe this is for protection purposes. If they made it easy someone could really do damage to someones credit and finances. Imagine if You could easily call S.S. and say Mom is sick give me her income?
What I really don't understand is that most of us go to a Lawyer to have the papers written and none of these things are explained to us as a paying customer and if you find your self in the position of "What now?" it cost us more money for the, Lawyers, carelessness in the first place, by them not explaining anything in detail.
I really love my Lawyer but I must say it is really not fare.
I bet at this point I could give an education to a lot of people on how it "really works"
but no one wants to listen to me because I don't have the degree to charge a lot of money.
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I went to a bank to get MPOA papers notorized for me to assign my agents. Due to the states paperwork, that I got online, the wording wasn't right for them. They said because the paperwork said, "Being of sound mind...." They wouldn't take the responsibility of whether or not I ws of sound mind. Sort of funny but I wasn't laughing at the time. I ended up going to a print shop with a notary there.
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Replacement Form 1099's are easily available on-line (mailed to SSA address of record in 10 days or so). Nothing else is needed! If the individual is deceased, you MUST appear in person but all that is required is a simple will naming a personal representative, and the PR be there to receive the 1099.(takes about 3 minutes).
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What I have decided to do about the 1099 is add up all of the amounts paid to him last year, fill out a substitute 1099 form with an explanation that SSA would not give us the information. I'll worry about the legal mumbo-jumbo later. They won't send a replacement 1099 to the last address because a "helpful" person at the old address sent things back to people & put a note in the mailbox to not deliver mail because my parents are in a nursing home. They are not, but the "helpful" person has sure screwed things up for us. Among other things, we also did not get the Terminex renewal & coverage was cancelled.
When things settle down I will attempt to jump thru the hoops, but my feet hurt too bad right now to jump very high.
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Yogibear I am glad you brought this up. About notary... I found that notary's sometimes take their duties too far. Job is that the documents are original and the person signing has proved to be the person signing, and other witnesses are who they claim by proper ID. If the document states it is only to be notarized only if principal is of sound mind, a notary may need proof of this but can't judge whether a person is of sound mind. You need Dr's and a Judge to come to that conclusion. That is mostly what the P.O.A. is for... acting on behalf of someone who can't make their own decisions. The Notary should not be concerned with the wording, just who is signing. They don't have the power to decide mental ability. If it were a question of mental ability and that has been decided and documented, the P.O.A. is not what you need. Then it's too late, Guardianship is next step.
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I have been doing advocacy for a number of people.
Routinely, in each system, the person must sign paperwork [usually not POAs] naming / allowing me to interact on their behalf regarding that system and it's services--not even dealing with money: just paperwork, appointments, discussions of cases with systems, only. Despite signed forms on file, systems STILL argue, debate and deny access, for various glitches:
===form not on file; form done in a different office; form only for that time-frame; form only applies to one office, affiliated office needs it's own release form; on and on--==even though, at time of signing, we were told specifically the signature applied until the signer removed it--even when that is worded on the form.
===Further, releases for Others to interact on behalf of a patient, only apply to the hospital they are done at; if a patient is moved, I have been told, NEW releases and POAs for the new institution must be done--HIPPA laws really are cumbersome.

==SSA: Separate permissions to interact on behalf of client, are needed for SSA and for Medicare permission; either of these can get lost in files, or disappear, and need redone.
==VA: One permitted access person may be listed on VA system "face sheet",
other permitted access persons may be missed because they got added as "scanned in documents"; sometimes it disappears in their computer system, or a worker may just be having a bad day. Things get lost and need redone--or go in person to stand at the window to get person to dig thru computer files to find it. Accessing via the Community-Based Outpatient Clinics, instead of the VA's larger hospitals, is helpful, especially if you are there often enuf the workers recognize you [same for other agencies].
==DSHS: Usually one time does it, but they can lose it, and it may need repeated, if workers cannot find it on file.

There ARE people who commit crimes against elders by leading vulnerable people to execute new POAs and wills before the elder has been declared unfit, or simply intervening in their lives dishonestly. THAT still needs guarded against.
We need some method of putting a lock on POAs and legal instruments done when person is the most lucid, to prevent unscrupulous interlopers taking advantage of entire estates, and legal instruments need to be applicable to multiple agencies to smooth the POAs need to interact with multiple agencies.
Are the dishonest people a minority, or a majority?

Despite those, and gov't/industry troubles, real people, with real feelings, trying to "fix things", however imperfectly, usually driven by their own agendas and limited knowledge.
Our systems seem to be imploding: they were designed for maximum investment/ profiteering by some. NO civilization can survive continuing "business as usual" this way.
Those who have attempted to "fix it" keep trying to retain old patterns of profiteering: that will not work anymore.
We must do what it takes, to make viable, rational, sensible changes that even the lucid, less educated can understand.
Maybe laws and systems need deleted and re-built simpler, instead of continually patching old systems and laws, mistakenly retaining old laws/systems.

News ticker-tape: Legislation is poised for vote to allow up to a 5-fold increase in fees compensation to insurance companies, jacking up fees to Medicare recipients.
People are being legally locked into subscribing to these plans.
We need to contact legislators and tell them NO, and try to offer constructive alternatives to solve issues, so legislators have other input besides industry Think Tanks.
MAYbe we need new/better, more flexible rules for Medical Savings Accounts.
If we think banking industries ripped everyone to financial shreds, wait until we see what insurance industry has done, and is about to do.

Since before advent of "Advantage Plans", Insurance Companies have been getting over $800+/month from Gov't, per enrolled client, whether or not the client accesses medical care, in ADDITION to the Medicare deduction from the SSI check, monthly fees a client pays out-of-pocket, Co-pays, and other fees.
The insurance industry has grown at a blinding rate,, during the last 60 years.
Why? At what total [not just out-of-pocket] real costs to people, industry and our economy?
"How things are", is broken.
We are in a transitional time period for all infrastructure.
We can participate in that process.
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I have a 27 page POA in addition to a letter signed by his family doctor of 25 years. Having both of these did no good. I applied for payee representative, that was accepted for SS. However, more red tape if any pension, etc. is issued by the US Treasury. It never ends. They don't seem to understand that a dementia pt. with a letter from the doctor stating no financial or legal matters can be handled by the pt. is valid. Incredibly frustrating!!!!!!!!
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There simply has to be a better way for legal POA's to be accepted by multiple agencies!
This mega-snafu garbage, not only for each agency, but between agencies is untenable!
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Why can't you just have your name added onto her bank account if she is getting direct deposit from her SSA? That is what my mil did for she added her son's name onto her account that way, if we need to pay bills n etc for her we can withdraw it n take care of her needs. She has moderate Alzheimer's n he does have a POA as well.
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Whatever you can do to smooth the way to taking proper care of what needs done, do it.
SOME of those solutions might appear to be fudging, or borderline legal.
There are situations requiring dealing with these organizations.
lildeb did good, making joint w/right of survivor account with elder.
That fixes bill paying, handling money in/out of that account
--be sure to keep really good records where the money is spent, as if elder later enters facility, they might want data, to make sure you didn't misuse money they think should have been used to pay for his care in their facility. .
5-year look-back??
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notwellmyself................ I just re-read your initial question. I found out that you need to get the right person on the phone!!! Example there was one "minor"
(YEA SURE ...minor!!!) detail I needed to get my Mothers Medicaid application approved!!! The entire application was a breeze compared to this. It was proof of her Life Insurance Policy not being a cash withdrawal before death policy, I needed to prove that it only matured upon her death. Sounds simple right???? A piece of paper stating a fact! How could this be a problem, they had my POA papers, they had told me this was the type of policy over the phone, they said it does not say that this action was ranted on the POA papers. So I called and called and called and called about 100 x's) ... well lets say I wasn't going to stop, until I got a yes!!!! I explained the details of my situation every time, I told each person I spoke to on the phone to make a note of why and what I needed every time I called. Then I finally got a smart girl on the phone that noticed my persistence and the urgency of my Mom's life on hold for just a written letter with the fact stated. She said "well OK that's all you need?"... she understood !!!! I wasn't asking for money just a letter for Medicaid!!!! She commented on my persistence and apologized for all the hassle!!! I had the letter two days later!!!
Mom was kind of "stuck" in a locked in unit for seniors, not a pretty scene!!!
I needed her finances in order to move on with her care plan.
I also had a hard time with a certain billing department at that Hospital, no one would answer my questions, only the head of that dept. knew the answers and he was always too busy and he'd call back when I wasn't home and leave messages. They wanted payment but I needed to explain, my Mom's finances were being held up due to the improper wording on the POA. So I went personally to the office, by this time the two girls in the billing dept knew me WELL, we were on first name basis they recognized my voice by this time, they knew exactly what I needed to do, as they both heard my story over weeks of phone tag, but this was not their job. So I said "is he in?" they said" yes, but he's in a meeting" " I said I'm off ALL DAY GOT NOTHING BUT TIME (big fibber I was) .... I'll wait until he's got time to talk to me.... I just want to pay but can't at the moment." I guess billing dept.'s are not used to honest people hunting them down.... Well I sat there for not too long... I had my meeting and got more than I expected (he showed me in a 10 minute tour... what I needed which door to go to who to speak to etc.) all of what I needed to do to clear up the billing issue and get her released to a NH. I had many applications to fill out by different departments, because as it turned out Mom was so broke (explained in the application process, paper trail I had to give) that I paid the minimum she required for her income level etc.
One lady I spoke to after all was done, I had called to make sure no strings were left untied actually chuckled and said you're a commendable person, most people would have given up long ago!!!!
See I think you need to not waist time people (employees) that you know are no help to you (there's a lot of them out their), you need to state what your need or actions or reasons are clearly, to those who can help or those who are willing to do "their job" , know the right questions to ask and to whom.
If you hit a dead end take a road that gets you there!!!!
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Chimonger, I have a box that's labeled n organized for instance, the mil Medical bill for 2011, 2012 n 2013 with separate folders as well as her utilities n property taxes n etc. Like a dummy, I didn't keep all of 2010 records but I probable could go back to bank for statements if needed? I also keep the withdraw slips from her account n write a note on them for its purpose. Thanks for the 5yrs look back just n case. It's about like the income tax filing papers when it comes to holding onto them. ; )
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All we wanted was to get Daddy's address changed so we would get tax documents in the future and to get a printout of this past year's income so I could file their tax return. Nothing else. I'm already on his bank account and have been for almost 40years. That was not a problem.
I talked to the hospice people today & they are supposed to be getting the letter from the doctor I need.
Today I remembered what used to happen everytime we got a Congressional Inquiry when I worked for IRS. Management literally jumped thru hoops to get issues resolved. I have decided that is what I am going to have to do. SSA should not be making life more difficult for people who have given up their own lives to care for others. Even if I can't resolve this issue for myself I am going to do what I can to make things easier for those who follow me. Maybe I won't get anything changed, but maybe I will. I'll never know unless I try. I propose we all write our Congressional representatives and flood them with information on what it is like trying to cut thru the red tape with SSA.
I won't have to deal with Medicaid or any lookback periods. But, I have been extremely worried about the uninvolved brother coming in after Daddy & Mama have died and wanting to know how every penny has been spent. I was also worried about keeping all of the receipts, bank statements, etc so I could prove things. Eventually these things add up and fill up space. My sister had a talk with my mother about the record and receipt keeping. We are working on drawing up a codicil to the will saying that anyone, other than my sister, that questions where the money has gone or questions their fair share of the estate loses their right to inherit anything. A separate agreement is being drawn up that says I am only answerable to my mother and sister and they have 2 months from the end of a month to question any amounts expended for my parents. It will set up a schedule of the date receipts will be destroyed (except of course what has to be kept for IRS and the like). Once past that date, they are beyond audit. I have been spending almost as much time taking care of their business as I have been taking care of them. My own life, like most of yours, has been neglected taking care of theirs. Next on the agenda is to try to simplify their financial affairs. They do not need 3 checking accounts and savings at 5 financial institutions. Maybe more than 1 savings account is needed, but not 3 checking accounts.
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Our state reps, congressman, senators should get a copy of these posts & read
them perhaps they might address these issues if you don't vote for them or tell them you will not unless they help resolve these issues. There are more of us then there are of them. These people or many of them are drawing three or more retirements while many of us got caught in the Windfall Act and lost most of our SS. I am so tired of our elected reps forgetting we elected them. Good Luck we will all be faced with these issues.
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My experience was the same, for SSI matters you have to be named "representative payee" as they do not use the POA directly. I had to fill out a bunch of forms and bring documentation to an apppointment at my local Social Security office to get my dad's taken care of. It actually was not too painful or time-consuming compared to some of the other things I had to go through with the trusteeship, where I had to go downtown to county offices repeatedly and they did not want to take copies instead of non-existent orignials of anything. I hoep they will be as reasonable with you.
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The other way to do things, if you can't get a representative payee account set up, is to get it all manageable via online banking, and just leave it in the orignal account. I even set up my parents up with a spearate e-mail address and put that in at the ssa.gov site. That ended up being OK for everything with my mom, whose circumstances were just a little different.
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If the POA is not an acceptable form of assigning responsibility for government agencies, then some form for proof of responsibility needs to be established to rectify this problem. My M-I-L set up a trust several years ago with my wife and my brother-in-law being trustees. My wife also has durable POA for her mom, who is 92, legally blind and now living in assisted living. We still had to take her to her bank and to the office of her investment counselor in order to get simple changes made in the way her bills are paid and to change her cash distribution from her investments in order to pay for the assisted living facility. My wife is also on her mom's checking account, but special actions had to be taken for her to handle all of her mom's bill payments and changes of address. Everybody has a copy of the POA on file, but it doesn't save much running around or personal attention by my M-I-L. I should also mention that my M-I-L has early stages of dementia.

One thing that should not be overlooked is that we have elected representatives in Washington who should be made aware of these problems. Write or call them and let them know the trouble that is being caused by these federal agencies and the problems they are causing people who are caring for elderly and infirm relatives. If a POA doesn't provide enough security for the person being cared for, then what can be done to securely pass that authority to a caregiver? Our reps in Congress should be able to find a solution.
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