Hi, everyone! I love my Grandmother and am happy to be here with her. She has pulled me from the fire so many times, so I feel like I owe it to her to help her and keep her out of a nursing home. However, I am only forty years old, have no life; I can not work, I have no friends, no social activities of any kind, because Grandmother can not be left alone. Am I being selfish because I want a life? It’s gotten to the point that I feel like I no longer matter. I’ve gained fifty lbs and it’s taking its toll on me. What do I do? Please, help. Thank you :)
Best wishes to you and your grandma. Take care.