She was diagnosed with breast cancer earlier this year and has been in hospital since August 16th she's had oxygen on iv fluids incontinence can't go to toilet so has pads on . I have a feeling the cancer has maybe spread as she has a bulging lump in her throat. Tonight she was confused and saying night night everyone I enjoyed myself . They treated me good . She looked dreadful yesterday worse I seen her but today had a brighter colour . But I've a feeling it's a case of days left could I be wrong?
Have you asked Hospice about this? They are very good at pin pointing a time frame.
Here is a timeline on things to look for at end of life:
https://www.healthline.com/health/elderly-end-of-life-symptoms#timeline
I know how difficult this whole situation is; I went through it myself with both of my parents; dad in 2015 and mom this past February. It's nerve wracking, to say the least, and my heart goes out to you. The not knowing is so hard, too.......wondering when they will drift away and finally be at peace and out of pain. Sending you a big hug and a prayer that your mom is released from her body with no more pain & suffering so she can move to the next phase of her eternal life where she can dance & be free once more.