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I think partly it is because they have a moment of clarity... and realize what they have lost.
sometimes, they are reliving a trauma from many years ago.
sometimes it is just confusion about the facts.... my Mom started out helping me pick through the house and setting up a garage sale. She sat at the table and even handled the cash.... but, weeks later was crying over all the things Dad took from her and gave away (my Dad died almost a year before). Confusion. A week or two after that she was crying because he wouldn’t move back home.
Why does anyone cry? Dementia may change people but emotions still exists. Getting older, even without dementia brings about tears for some.
Some people don’t have deep emotions and don’t cry. It may be that they don’t show their emotions. Those people who do show emotions will cry.
My husband’s paternal grandfather was a sweetheart but unfortunately he couldn’t stand up to his domineering wife. His wife did not like my MIL. She was jealous of her. She hated losing her son to another woman. Some mothers are like that.
She was a mean woman and refused to be around my MIL, who was a doll and his grandmother didn’t even change after her grandchildren were born. So sad. My husband did not know his paternal grandparents.
Well, after my husband’s grandmother died we invited his grandfather to a big Italian dinner at one of our favorite Italian restaurants and he looked around and all of us and broke down and cried.
He was crying because he was so glad to finally be all with us. It was a release. He felt free to cry. We hugged him. I started crying too. I was happy that he was away from his miserable wife and free to be with his grandchildren, even if they were all grown up then. He loved my MIL but he was trapped in the middle. His wife insisted that he not speak to my MIL.
I felt horrible that he had to live with a miserable woman all of his life. It wasn’t common to divorce then, especially for devout Italian Catholics.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
sometimes, they are reliving a trauma from many years ago.
sometimes it is just confusion about the facts.... my Mom started out helping me pick through the house and setting up a garage sale. She sat at the table and even handled the cash.... but, weeks later was crying over all the things Dad took from her and gave away (my Dad died almost a year before). Confusion. A week or two after that she was crying because he wouldn’t move back home.
Some people don’t have deep emotions and don’t cry. It may be that they don’t show their emotions. Those people who do show emotions will cry.
My husband’s paternal grandfather was a sweetheart but unfortunately he couldn’t stand up to his domineering wife. His wife did not like my MIL. She was jealous of her. She hated losing her son to another woman. Some mothers are like that.
She was a mean woman and refused to be around my MIL, who was a doll and his grandmother didn’t even change after her grandchildren were born. So sad. My husband did not know his paternal grandparents.
Well, after my husband’s grandmother died we invited his grandfather to a big Italian dinner at one of our favorite Italian restaurants and he looked around and all of us and broke down and cried.
He was crying because he was so glad to finally be all with us. It was a release. He felt free to cry. We hugged him. I started crying too. I was happy that he was away from his miserable wife and free to be with his grandchildren, even if they were all grown up then. He loved my MIL but he was trapped in the middle. His wife insisted that he not speak to my MIL.
I felt horrible that he had to live with a miserable woman all of his life. It wasn’t common to divorce then, especially for devout Italian Catholics.