My dad is trying to visit my mom whom is in hospice at my home, we are located out of his home state. He is 85 and has fears of flying and other memory issues. Plus, his wife is dying and I think it's affecting him badly. I don't think he can travel alone. My siblings aren't willing to travel with him, they think he is lying. I do not. What alternatives are there for elderly travel?
I would look into hiring a cna to fly with dad. Send the bill to bro.
Curious why your parents are apart? I know your Mom is in Hospice at your home, just wondering why your Dad hasn't been there all this time? Or why you weren't at their house, having Mom in Hospice at her own home? Maybe if we knew the reasoning behind this it would be more helpful.