I am my mom's Conservator and Guardian for almost 7 years now. I have only been providing my siblings with the financial paperwork/forms that the court has me complete yearly for annual report, etc. My siblings had been very hands off and I have always told them if they need receipts, or needed to see anything else to let me know, come by my home and I would sit down with them and provide more. Now all of a sudden it is a problem. I'm being told I don't provide them with any information. I am not trying to hide anything from them and wish they were more involved since they never visit mom or help me do anything for her. Do I have to provide all mom's bank accounts statements to them?
Recalling my mother's filing "system" I have every sympathy with papers coming to light in horrifying ways; but even so, can you explain having overlooked her tax situation altogether? I'm surprised that this task was never drawn to your attention by anyone, and that you haven't received reminders or demands from the tax authorities, in six years. What's gone on?
I wonder: have you been dealing with the bulk of her taxes as normal routine, but this is another area that you've only just become aware of, or something like that?
You can not say that someone that has been declared incompetent only needs to have someone give them meds and feed them with a straight face, can you? If that is true, how did you get guardianship? Is this young man even competent himself?
You have obviously NEVER given one day of care or you would be paying him for his care of your mom.
I can not even believe that you would say that he owes her because as a baby she gave him a home.
You are lucky you are not my sibling, you would not be able to exploit my nephew in this sick and twisted reality of yours.