I am there because his hearing is so bad he doesn't get directions right many times concerning meds, etc. but he tells me HE is talking whenever I try to explain something to the Dr.
I am his caregiver, it is hard to speak up as he makes a scene, (embarrassing), I don't know what to do. He shows anger easily...
And if his anger is an issue, make sure it’s on the list.
Let him make a scene. I've made more than my share of scenes in the past, no reason for you to be embarrassed.
Praise God for your diligence.
Grace + Peace,
Bob
To make it practical, write the main issues, stick to the facts and give examples, do not babble and do not write a novel, be brief but clear, so that the doctor would be able to read your input and focus on the important issues. You need to keep her attention focused. I have heard caregivers who have private discussion with the doctor after the visit, but I feel that is a bit late in the process. Whatever would work between you and the doctor.
Good luck.
It's a balancing act to be honest. I let some non biggie things go or will do as others and shake my head slightly. But I always let her try to answer first.
Id also tell him its not the 1600 hundreds and that women can be seen and heard.
He will probably need you within 2 mins because he cant hear what they are saying, and directing him to do. He will realize you are much needed. Then I would tell him his embarrassing scenes in front of people will stop forthwith.
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